Oh, The Matriarchy!
An immersive 8-week group program to reclaim your autonomy, authenticity, and authority.
Matriarchy is inner permission made visible.
And building it is going to take audacity to sluff off all the outdated programming we've been taught.
It is the moment you stop making yourself smaller to keep the room comfortable.
It’s the freedom to express yourself anytime, anywhere to anyone.
You say your truth, your needs, your desire, even when an old reflex wants you to
shrink, explain, go silent, or disappear.
It is the moment you stop making yourself smaller to keep the room comfortable.
It’s the freedom to express yourself anytime, anywhere to anyone.
You say your truth, your needs, your desire, even when an old reflex wants you to
shrink, explain, go silent, or disappear.
About the container:
A transformative collective that supports your authenticity and audacity, helps you clarify what you actually want, and offers gentle, consistent, real accountability. Unlearn guilt, shame, and strengthen your skill to make decisions from inner authority instead of external approval.
A transformative collective that supports your authenticity and audacity, helps you clarify what you actually want, and offers gentle, consistent, real accountability. Unlearn guilt, shame, and strengthen your skill to make decisions from inner authority instead of external approval.
Set the load down. Stop carrying everything for everyone else!
This is likely for you if your story/background includes:
• you were trained to be easy, good, low-maintenance, accommodating, and learned love was conditional
• you come from family, culture, or religion where harmony, duty, purity, or “make us proud” mattered more than your needs, and directness was labeled rude, selfish, or even dramatic
• you became the steady one early, parentified into caretaker, fixer, mediator, or peacekeeper roles
You might feel at home here if:
• you grew up in volatility, criticism, or walking on eggshells, and you fawn, people-please, avoid conflict, or second-guess yourself
• you’ve experienced manipulation, gaslighting, narcissism or abuse, and are rebuilding trust in your own reality
• you’re burned out from over-giving, and you’re ready to practice receiving
• you’re in transition (divorce, grief, motherhood or choosing not to mother), reclaiming body, autonomy, voice, and direction
This program is designed for women (and people assigned female at birth including transmen, 21+) WHO:
• are ready to live with more truth
• want to express needs and desires without apologizing, over-explaining, or over-performing
• are tired of shrinking, editing, or silencing themselves to keep the peace
• want clean boundaries and to feel safe being direct, honest, and visible
• you were trained to be easy, good, low-maintenance, accommodating, and learned love was conditional
• you come from family, culture, or religion where harmony, duty, purity, or “make us proud” mattered more than your needs, and directness was labeled rude, selfish, or even dramatic
• you became the steady one early, parentified into caretaker, fixer, mediator, or peacekeeper roles
You might feel at home here if:
• you grew up in volatility, criticism, or walking on eggshells, and you fawn, people-please, avoid conflict, or second-guess yourself
• you’ve experienced manipulation, gaslighting, narcissism or abuse, and are rebuilding trust in your own reality
• you’re burned out from over-giving, and you’re ready to practice receiving
• you’re in transition (divorce, grief, motherhood or choosing not to mother), reclaiming body, autonomy, voice, and direction
This program is designed for women (and people assigned female at birth including transmen, 21+) WHO:
• are ready to live with more truth
• want to express needs and desires without apologizing, over-explaining, or over-performing
• are tired of shrinking, editing, or silencing themselves to keep the peace
• want clean boundaries and to feel safe being direct, honest, and visible
This program was originally called Oh, The Audacity and was designed by Come Play Heal and Seia Healing in early 2026. Oh, The Matriarchy is the next iteration of audaciousness.
If you are done making decisions from fear,
obligation, guilt, or approval, and want to lead from inner authority, join us, starting October 13th, 2026!
What you’ll get:
• 8 weeks of guided practices in truth, bravery, and self-trust
• 6 live Zoom meetings (and access to recordings)
• Optional office hours
• Whatsapp group
• Handouts
• Accountability Buddies
• Thetahealing Belief Work
• Practical tools and exercises
• Discounted 1:1 coaching sessions
• A Success Reunion Party
Outcomes we are cultivating:
• audaciousness
• a new world view
• a new world order
• a new default toward power and inner-authority
• an edgy aliveness
• a joyful giddiness
• quick-witted boundary setting
• more freedom to say, do, and pursue what you want
• access to choices and immediate action
• a groundedness of self
• new friends and siblinghood
• power to shift your relationships
• ability to recreate your life
• ability to lead, exercise your leadership, and influence your community!
Where:
Online via Zoom
When:
Tuesdays
Exact Time TBD
Dates:
Online via Zoom
When:
Tuesdays
Exact Time TBD
Dates:
- October 13th - Masterclass
- October 20th - Masterclass
- October 27th - Masterclass
- November 3rd - Integration
- November 10th - Masterclass
- November 17th - Masterclass
- November 24th - Integration
- December 1st - Masterclass
- December 15th - Success Reunion Party
What's the REAL Cost of Playing Small?
The price you're already paying for people-pleasing
You've been told investing in yourself is "selfish." But what about the price you pay every single day for staying stuck? Let's add it up—with real dollars.
Because you didn't advocate for yourself. Because you said yes when you meant no. Because you took on everyone else's work. How much more could you be earning right now if you had better boundaries?
Dinner dates you didn't want to be on. Weekends spent with someone who doesn't meet you halfway. That guy who "isn't sure about commitment" after 2 years. Hair, makeup, therapy to process why you keep attracting the same type.
Therapy. Sick days. That expensive retreat you booked to "find yourself." Massage, acupuncture, supplements to manage the stress of living in a body that's screaming for you to stop. Medical bills from stress-related issues.
Gifts you didn't want to buy. Events you didn't want to attend. Coffee dates where you listened for 2 hours and left drained. Saying yes to projects/favors/responsibilities that aren't yours. The actual dollar cost of being "nice."
If you charged for all the emotional labor, organizing, mediating, caretaking, and fixing you do for free—what's your time worth? Most women do 20-40 hours/week of unpaid labor. At just $50/hour, that's $52k-$104k/year you're giving away for FREE.
Staying in the wrong job too long. Not negotiating. Not leaving the relationship sooner. Not starting your business. The business idea you shelved. The move you didn't make. What did fear-based decisions cost you?
The Annual Cost of Playing Small:
$112,000
This is what you're ALREADY paying every year to stay stuck in people-pleasing, bad boundaries, and shrinking yourself.
Over 5 years:
$560,000
Over 10 years:
$1,120,000
Let's Put This in Perspective
$112,000
What staying stuck costs you THIS YEAR
$333
Oh, The Matriarchy!
That's a 336.3x return if Matriarchy helps you change even ONE of these patterns.
You'd only need to reclaim ONE hour per week of your unpaid labor, set ONE boundary at work, or skip ONE bad date to make this program pay for itself. And you can start with just $88 today.
The question isn't "Can I afford this program?"
The question is: "Can I afford another year of this?"
Join Oh, The Matriarchy! →
The question is: "Can I afford another year of this?"
Early bird pricing ($123) ends on Autumn Equinox (September 21st) • Start with just $111 deposit
Two-for-one deal: $277.50/person when you bring a friend
Two-for-one deal: $277.50/person when you bring a friend
Meet your fantastic facilitator:
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What does the Matriarchy look like?
